Let’s talk about the most common sentence that every African entrepreneur, vendor, hairdresser, or tomato-seller has heard at least once in their life:

“Aaah, but you’re expensive!”

My brother, my sister… when someone tells you you’re expensive — do not panic! In fact, breathe in, sip your Mazoe, and smile like you’ve been told you’re beautiful.

Because this is not an attack… it’s an opportunity.

Sales Is Not Shouting – It’s Asking the Right Questions****

When someone says you’re expensive, don’t start fighting. Don’t reply with, “Then go buy from there!”

You’re not a bouncer. You’re a businessperson.

Instead, lean in gently like a wise old auntie and ask:

“Why do you say I’m expensive?”

Then listen. Nod. Maybe even add a thoughtful “Hmmm” like you’re about to write a thesis.

Let’s say they say:

“The shop next door is cheaper.”

You say:

“Okay. If our prices were the same, where would you buy?”

If they say:

“You. Because your shop looks professional, you were smiling, the shop smells nice, I love how you explained things…”

Boom! You’ve won the game.

Because now, they are the ones defending your price. You’re not arguing — they are convincing themselves to buy from you.

Objections Are Not Rejections – They’re Just Confused Compliments****

In Africa, when someone says “you’re expensive,” it doesn’t always mean they can’t afford you. Sometimes it means:

  • “Convince me a little more.”

  • “I like you, but I want a discount.”

  • “I came here for vibes and ended up considering real business.”

So you smile and say:

“Boss, why don’t you top up just a little and buy from here, where you already feel at home?”

You’ve handled the objection like a pro. No shouting, no panic, no discounting yourself to the grave.

Real-Life Example from the Market****

Go to any market in Africa — Mbare, Kumasi, Gikomba, Kariakoo. A customer comes, asks the price of tomatoes. Seller says:

“$1 per cup.”

Customer says:

“Ah! Too expensive! That one is 80 cents!”

But the seller, without blinking, responds:

“Madam, if you want soft tomatoes that cook like your mother’s love, this is where you buy.”

By the time madam is done laughing, she’s already holding a plastic bag full of $1 tomatoes.

Why? Because the seller didn’t fight the objection. She danced with it.

Sales isn’t war. It’s courtship.

When a customer objects, don’t be defensive. Don’t turn into a lion. Turn into a psychologist.

Ask:

  • “Why?”

  • “If price wasn’t an issue, would you buy?”

  • “What made you walk into this shop and not the other?”

Sometimes, the only thing between you and that sale… is just a good conversation.

So next time someone says:

“You’re expensive!”

Tell them:

“That’s because I’m worth it… but let’s talk.”

Jerry Nyazungu

Written by Jerry Nyazungu

Known as "The Chartered Vendor," Jerry is a business consultant, international keynote speaker, and bestselling author. He transforms African businesses through strategic consulting and world-class sales training.

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